The girl behind the Blog

Who am I? This whole blog so far has been all about what has happened to me and what has happened to my family. But in todays blog post I will be discussing who I am.

Hi I am Chloe. Chloe Isabelle Julian. I am hilarious, I’ll leave you in stitches. From my sarcastic sense of humour to my intimidating dance moves. I am compassionate and I will put all of your issues before mine. I am selfless and show my love alot by buying my close ones many things without giving them a choice. I love very deeply and share endless amounts of love and kindness. I am very spontaneous and enjoy the simplest things of life. I am creative. I love interior design, i love photography, I love art and I love a quality book. I never used to be like this I used to always just love to party and never stop. But now the perfect night is a winters night with beautiful company, an emotional book and a fire and some warm food is pure bliss to me. I wear my soul on my sleeve and I stand up for what I believe in. I will not change for anyone.

I am currently in my last year of High School in Melbourne, but when I finish the world is my oyster. I have a huge passion for travel. In the darkest moments of my life it has inspired me to keep going. At the beginning of next year, I am off on a contiki tour through out Rome, Italy all the way to Berlin, Germany and later on in 2020 I will be going on an Island Hopping Tour all through Croatia and Greece. Apart from this, life also includes HARD WORK! I will be doing a certificate in Child Safety and Intervention, which I have a huge passion for and hopefully one day can be a successful Social Worker. If I am able I would like to continue with motivating people to become the best versions of themselves. I want to share my story with the world so I can leave the world a better place than what i arrived in it like.

Most of all, I want to be a mum. I aspire to be the most aware and supportive mum I could ever be. My experience as a child has taught me what to do and what not to do and It excites me to think of my great potential. I want to be friends with my children and make them aware that I will love them no matter what. I want to prevent them from feeling insecure and shield them from mental health.

Although, I may have positive things about me, I am human and I also have flaws. I can get quite insecure and doubt myself and the people around me. I make excuses for everything and never take responsibility for the bad. I overthink every decision I make and i am lazy. But I am trying hard to fix this.

Although this post may sound “up my self” I just want my readers to learn a little more about me as a person, less of what has happened to me. What has happened to me does not define me. I grow past these experiences and learn myself.

In the comments tell me abit about you. Remember to stay true to yourself, love yourself and stand up for yourself. As I always say, dont change for anyone. Cant wait to hear more.

Lots of Love, Chlo x

9 thoughts on “The girl behind the Blog”

  1. Well done daughter. I didn’t know you could write 590 words but congratulations and well said but don’t you mean you wear your heart on your sleeve and not your soul. I have never heard it put that way but I am sure all your readers knew what you meant. You are a very special and beautiful girl Chloe. I am so pleased you are my daughter. Regardless of all your trials, tribulations and challenges you have had growing up you have grown into one very special person with a beautiful heart and a very special soul. I like to think I played some part in making you the person you are today but it was probably only a very small part and you would have probably grown up into the person you are without my help. I am so proud of you. I know how difficult it is where you are with what you are trying to do and the daily challenges you confront in trying to get to where you want to be and what you have achieved already is amazing but just hang in there, take one day at a time, don’t try and get too far ahead of yourself and stay on course and eventually what you are trying to achieve will all come true.

    There will be little setbacks along the way but just take them in your stride and focus on what you are trying to do and eventually you will get there. I am sure of that. Life was never meant to be easy (Malcolm Fraser one of our prime ministers said that) but once you have been through the process and you have got to where you want to be you will be glad you went through the process the way you did and you will be glad you struggled to get where you want to be because once you get there you will be glad you did it your way. It will mean so much more to you. My love and support is always there for you whenever you need it the most but try and achieve most things on your own as they will mean so much more to you if you do and the safety net will always be there from me if or when you need it.

    You are all mine Chloe and you have always been all mine and that will never change. I am so proud of you in what you are trying to do and how you are going about it and I am so glad you are my daughter. I don’t tell you that anywhere near enough and I wouldn’t swap you for the world. You are right you are very funny, especially that English accent. You would make the English laugh at it also. You should try and get some of there stupid phrases down pat which would make it even funnier. Lots of Love, Dadxxx

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  2. I love you aspire to be a mother… I too want to be an amazing,loving, thoughtful and encouraging parent, something I didn’t have! Keep your head up and keep on growing!

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  3. You’re very welcome Miss Chloe,writing about your life and what you’ve been through is such a good way to process and heal; as well as helping others along the way 🌼

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